01 April 2012

The beginning of John's story


29-March-2012

Not sure how to describe what just took place. In fact, this entire day and WEEK thus far has been out of the norm. And then I remember, there is no norm here.

Our “plans” have changed innumerable times due to interruptions in others’ schedules. Some good interruptions for others, some could only be labeled ‘inconvenient’.

So after all of our plans dropping Robert off at the airport and having all of our meetings fall through in Accra (every single one of them) we made our way back to where we are staying. We left the house just after 6:30 this morning and didn’t arrive in Tefle until around 11:30 this morning. On average the trip is about 2 hours.

After we arrived, a young man named John knocked on my door. In all of his pre-teen-ness, he crossed his legs, leaned against the terrace post and grinned. We exchanged greetings and he told me he was going to farm. He just wanted to see if I was going to come watch them play ball in the school on Friday.

I asked him why he was not in school. His reply, “They sack me.” (They sent him home.)

I responded with the question of why and he said it was because he did not have the 30 pesawas to pay for the exam fee. (That’s roughly twenty cents.)

So because he was not in school he said he was going to the farm where his mother was working.  After a treacherous ride from the city, I asked if I could accompany John to the farm with the assurance that the farm was not far. “Oh it is not far!!”

As we began I asked him how he would get the 30 pesawas for exam fees. He said he would ask his grandfather for the money and see what happened.

As we walked toward his family’s farm, I inquired of his mother. He said that actually his mother had died about seven years ago. The woman he referred to that was farming was actually his grandmother.

The way to the farm was definitely not short. We walked over a mile down paths, all within the bush. As families get ready to begin the next farming season, some are slashing and burning. We came upon 2 pieces of land that were burning. It wasn’t a raging forest fire but we did have to run through these patches as not to be burned.

Along the way he expressed his concern over dzudzu and the way that Ghanaians must be careful with their dealings with white people. He spoke of his fear of dzudzu people and their power. I asked who was stronger, Jesus or those using dzudzu and he said, “Dzudzu of course!”

When we finally got to the farm, it was only his grandmother there. They are growing cassava but want to plant maize. I would like to pray about doing Farming God’s Way there for them.

The trek back from the farm was just as exciting as John told everyone that I was coming from farm. They looked at how dirty my feet are (from the sand and soot) and knew that what he was saying was true. 


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As things played out, I learned John had not been honest with me.


The next day he said that it was 3 Ghana Cedis that he needed instead of 30 pesewas; which is like  30 cents to the dollar.


He spent the day with me. While I sat on a stool by my shower and washed clothes, he was using a white board and markers and was working on number patterns. He is in the 5th grade but still struggled with the concept. 


After math, he helped me get a fire going in order to have coals to bake (or burn) brownies in the dutch oven. While others came to greet, he hung out. All. Day. Long. And I loved it.


That evening Godson and I went to speak with the grandmother about "sharing the crop" or as we know it, 'crop-sharing'. Truth be told, we don't even want any of the crop, we just want to begin a 'Farming God's Way' plot but it would make life difficult for the family if people knew we were just volunteering and working for them, thus "sharing the crop."


So the grandmother approved and at the end of the conversation she said that John had not been in school lately because he misbehaved and refused to take his punishment. As I heard this my heart dropped.


The next day John came to my house and I invited him in and exhorted him, "Who are you? I don't even know you. You spent the entire day in my house yesterday and all day you lied to my face. We worked on math and spent time cooking and still, you never told me the truth. Please leave and come back when you can be honest with me."


He left. And although it took a few hours, I was convicted. Was this what Jesus would have said? Would he have sent him away?


That evening John came back and told me the truth. As he explained what he did wrong, he refused to take responsibility for his actions, passively giving an account of the instance..."They said"...  My response, "Is it true?" His, "Yes, it is true."


"Then I think you should go to school tomorrow and receive your punishment. This is foolishness."


"I will go. I will take my punishment."


The next day he went. He came to my house in the middle of the day and said that the teachers had sacked them all. I asked why and he gave me some crazy reason that I can't remember right now but immediately knew it was a lie. "John, did the teachers sack you?" 
"No."
"You have lied again."
"I'm sorry, they didn't sack us."


By Friday we will be clearing our land on John's family's property. John will be there. He will watch what we do and I know he will be there to assist us.  One thing that takes place in the beginning of 'Farming God's Way' is the farmers pray over the land. They pray and ask God to forgive what's been done on the land and to the land. This is important, especially for Africa and especially in this area with animism and traditional worship. Then they pray for God to redeem the land both spiritually and physically.


When we pray, I want to be next to John, and I want God to do this in his and my relationship but even more I want Him to do it in His and John's relationship. John is not a believer. He's got a great imagination, a beautiful smile, a mischievous streak and there's just something in him that I look forward to watching our Creator cultivate.


Please pray for John however you feel led after reading this. I feel like this is just the beginning of a really good story...one John would like to tell!!



Post from Robert (typed before March 26th)

Hello I am Robert. You might recognize me as Sandra's brother. 

One might be tempted to believe such a fact as this and my knowing her for nearly 26 years would make me pretty familiar with all of her family.

Well over the last 3 days I have met her sisters, a few brothers… oh and her sons. "She is African woman now!!," they said as she greets them in their native Ɛwe. 

Last night she moved her cot into the living room so that she might sleep surrounded by 6 Ghanaian children who spent the night with us. 

Sandra has always been a bold and proud woman. If you know her you know what I am talking about. In the past couple of years God has taken hold of her heart and she has found a new boldness and a new strength in Him. The kind of boldness that drives a woman to pack all that she owns and bid farewell to all that she knows in order to follow God to a country over 6000 miles away from home in order to show people the kind of love that changes lives.

This has been evident in the numerous visits to Greet people around the village and even in surrounding villages. People are always so blessed when she greets them in their own language. It is amazing how many people Sandra has met in her last few trips here. 

The beautiful family (of Sandra's son) whom she befriended early on assured me that they are going to be looking out for her and that makes the difficult task of leaving her here in a few days a little easier. 

But I must be honest there have been more than a couple of times that I have teared up at that thought. But I know she is daily seeking God in this and I look forward to all that He will do here as a result of her obedience.

20 March 2012

By His Grace...mele giye!

After some admittedly somber posts, I'm happy to post about my return to Ghana! Excitement is in the air "E lia?" (Are you around?) People are happy that I am back and especially that I am back to stay.

It's tempting to think that I'm something special in and of myself, but I am reminded of where I was last week, last year, and in the past. I am reminded of God's grace in my life and how this is the only way I can be here. Mele giye!" (I am here!)

By God's grace, my dear friends have overwhelmed me with their support, encouragement, gifts and love. By His grace I have a purpose and its here in Ghana right now. Its exciting. Definitely adventurous. This is freedom. 

As people pray over us and email me I see God's hand in all of this. Truly He is directing us in ministry, day by day, even when we don't realize it!

It has been great to watch "my son" love on Robert as much as he does me. I thought Kwesi might be afraid of him because he is a male. Most kids are that way. But he has made Robert his own little amusement park as he climbs, plays, flies in the air...fun stuff.



Carlin arrives here in our village tomorrow hopefully. I am beyond excited for everyone here to meet him as well. 

I spoke with Mawuko today and we await his planning of the next kids games. I had hoped Robert would be able to be a part but I'm not so sure it will work out.

So summarized on progress...we've greeted many people annnnnnnd that's mostly it. We have been to market, purchased some things to take care of the mission house. Although it sounds like we've not done much, we've pretty much been going strong up until today. Since this afternoon we've mostly been in the house taking it easy as we recover from the heat, walking several miles each day, playing with kids all evening, and greeting, greeting, greeting!

Thanks for staying in touch! Thank you for your support! 

God bless and may His grace be evident in your life today!


10 March 2012

Between the eyes...

Today it hit me big time. I'm leaving. Leaving my family behind. I cried in the tub because I thought about how we'll be crying tomorrow as I leave my favorite, amazing sister, behind. I thought about leaving my parents. I thought about the tears that have already been shed in Belton and GW and East Texas and other places in recent weeks/days. I was talking to my sister today about how I'm realizing I'm waayyyy more of a people pleaser than I'd like to admit. This evening I realized how much it hurts me to know that my family will hurt when I leave. This may sound contradictory to my last post. Its not.

Tonight I feel like I got a small taste of Luke 14.
"Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: 26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple. 27 And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple."


Now I don't feel like I hate my father and mother and brothers and sisters but I feel like they might feel like I do. I have had people ask in jest, "What did we do that was so bad that you want to move over there?"


But tonight, I wish with everything in me that Momma would know that she is an inspiration to me. That I share with others how blessed I am that God has graced me with her and the joy that I find in our relationship these days. God is so good.


I want Daddy to know that its not just lip service when I say he has set the bar super high. That he's everything I could hope for in a father. I guess he will know how much I'll miss long hugs and inside jokes like "What is it?" "You sneaky Daddy!" and in a British accent, "Daddy?" With response, "What-ey?"


I want my older brother to know that I wish with all my heart that I could be here when he gets to Texas and that my sister-in-law would know that I'm sad to miss out on the chance to be so close to her and get to know her well. And I'm sad I'll miss out on the cute-ness that is Kaden.


I want my younger brother to know that I'm super glad he's going with me to move to Ghana and that I wouldn't choose any other person on this earth to go. I want him to know the encouragement that he's been in my life and the hope I have in the future that God has for him.


I want my sister to know a lot that I can't type right now because I'm way too emotional. I want her to know that the best gift she has ever given me was taking all her time off to spend the week with me as I get ready to move. And I want my brother-in-law to know that that is also the greatest gift he has given me!


I don't want my family to think I hate them. I don't want them to hurt. 


Today and the next few days I will be living, breathing and moving on Grace alone!